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Marriage - John C. Kirk — LiveJournal
Sep. 13th, 2005
12:16 am -
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September 13th, 2005 02:14 pm (UTC)
As a married person...
It has to be what works for you as a couple (gay or not). As said previously, I didn't get married expecting to get divorced, if I had had any doubts, I wouldn't have committed to my husband, as it would have been unfair to say one thing and thing another. That said, I can't blindly say that I'll never get divorced as who know how I/my husband might change in the future, or what circumstances will have what effects on us/our marriage. At the moment things are just fine and we wouldn't have started a family if we didn't feel our marriage was secure. However, sometimes people get divorced and it's their choice and I'm fine with that - indeed, I'm sure it's a relief and the best thing, sometimes.
Marriage seemed to be a natural progression of our relationship and personally, I wouldn't have been content to live together as husband and wife without actually being married. Plus you get toasters and stuff!